Debra Shade
Debra Shade is a Clinical Sexologist, Master Sexpert and Author. She travels cross country, pushing boundaries in her hands-on workshops, exploring sexuality and all of its kinks. She lives in Columbus, OH where for 8 years, she has hosted events and opportunities for individuals 18+ to learn about modern day sex education and their own sexual expression. She consults individuals and couples to their most orgasmic experiences through results driven consultations. Visit here at- https://shademediallc.com/ &
https://debrashade.com/
Orgasm Mediation Is Good for You
Photo by Madison Lavern on UnsplashedAn orgasm meditation is very calming and relaxing. That storm of hormones and chemicals that are produced through AROUSAL leads to the pleasure of release. Orgasm mediation is the matter of being still and calm before starting...
Anal Fingering
Fingering shouldn’t be reserved only for the clit and vagina. They may enjoy some anal action too. I say “may” because not every person enjoys anal stimulation. If they do, then anal fingering is a great place to start, before progressing further...
ORGASMIC MEDITATION
While you may have heard of orgasms, and you have heard of meditation you may not have heard the terms used together. Orgasmic Meditation exist and there are practioniers who can guide you through the process or you can take notes from...
YOUR FINGERS, THEIR ORGASM
Hey luvs, happy June! I hope it will be just as sexy as May was. I am going to talk about having more pleasurable sex in a threesome. With three bodies, there is so much you can lick, stroke, nibble and spank....
HOW TO FINGER A VAGINA INTERNALLY
Whether you’re aiming for G-spot stimulation, or you just want to rub the A-spot or entire vagina canal in general, these tips can help.
• Use lube.• Make sure your fingernails are cut short and filed smoothly.• The same goes for rough hands.•...
LOVING THE LABIA
While the labia are not as sensitive as the clit, there are a lot of very enjoyable ways you can pleasure and stimulate them. Slowly rubbing them up and down like can bring them close to orgasm without them climaxing, which makes...
You Never Squirt – Are You Broken
You have heard that every vulva owner could squirt yet you have never been able to experience it for yourself. Rest easy, you are normal. You are not broken; you may just be missing the spot. There is a confusion among what...
Cock Shaming
I really did not think that folks were still having conversations about a cock shaming. Being too big or too small is how your sexuality is judged. Society has fostered an environment of cock shaming. We see it on TV all the...
I Got to Thinking……. Let Me Reintroduce Myself
I have been submitting blogs for Sexpert.com for quite some time now. I got to thinking about all of the new readers who have stumbled across this blog. Especially folks who are looking to find out about creating the perfect orgasm. Let...
Is Your Penis Healthy?
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A healthy penis requires your attention. As you age, your penis will change and sex as you know it will change and sometimes this takes you down a rabbit hole of despair. Resulting in more sexual problems....
