A Primer on the Plumbing of the Penis

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July 26, 2022

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The difference between good sex and great sex has a lot to do with understanding your or your partner’s anatomy. Our genitals, especially the penis, is something we don’t give a lot of thought to. Guys get hard and they masturbate or fuck. Feels good, right?

But if you want to prolong your erections, come harder, or just want to enjoy your masturbation, anal sex or lovemaking more, longer or in different ways? What if you have a problem getting or staying hard or can’t come? Knowing the parts of the male genitals, what they do, and how they work go a long way in having great sex … even more so than taking a “magic pill” that your doctor prescribes (although they can be helpful) or the ones that are sold in annoying middle of the night infomercials or sold at the counter at your local mini-mart or gas station (usually bogus).

The Anatomy of a Penis

The penis is composed of three chambers; the two cavernous bodies (or corpora cavernosa), which lie side by side on top of the penis, and the spongy body (or corpus spongiosum), which is centered below the other two. The spongy body surrounds the urethra and extends out the end of the shaft to form the glans.

All three chambers contain small hollow areas that fill with blood to produce an erection. Surrounding all three bodies is a semi-elastic membrane called the tunica albuginea. The arteries that feed blood to the penis are surrounded by smooth muscle fibers that normally limit blood flow to the penis. When a man is aroused, the muscle fiber relaxes and blood flow into the penis increases. The spongy tissue of the penis fills with blood, causing the penis to swell. The size of the erect penis is governed by the semi-elastic membrane. It’s kind of like a bicycle tire; once it fills up, it gets firm and hard but can’t get any bigger. The veins that drain the penis, which lie close to the surface, are compressed by the erection and slow the blood flow from the penis. Basically, this is what keeps a penis hard.

Sex Facts About the Penis

It takes about 0.033814 ounces of blood for a penis to get stiff. The circulation rate must be very high at 0.067628045 ounces per second. The small arteries, with a diameter of around 0.5 mm when the penis is resting, will double their diameter to convey the blood.
Erections are not consistent. Waxing and waning are normal, even during foreplay and intercourse. Trying different masturbation or oral techniques usually get the little guy straight up and full of attention in no time.
Nocturnal erections occur during all male dreams, sometimes as many as nine times during the night. They naturally occur during REM sleep, whether you’re having a hot dream or a zombie apocalypse nightmare.
Morning wood happens during, or just after a dream; and it can be a very persistent erection. While a morning erection is not a sign of arousal, its presents and the pleasurable sensations it can create may result in arousal.
Non-erect size is not an accurate determiner of erect size. Some guys are growers and others are show-ers. Increases from flaccid to erect lengths range widely, from less than a quarter-inch to 3.5 inches longer. On average, a limp penis will increase in volume 300% when it is erect. An erect penis will also contain more than eight to 10 times its normal amount of blood.
Think of masturbation as a healthy workout. You need to have erections regularly to keep your penis in shape. To maintain a healthy tone, the smooth muscle of the penis must be periodically enriched with oxygen by the rush of blood that engorges the penis and makes it erect. Without regular erections, penile tissue can become less elastic and shrink, making the penis 1-2 centimeters shorter.
Men will go limp if they drink too much. About 3½ drinks will start having an adverse effect on a 150-pound man.
Smoking can shorten your penis by as much as a centimeter. Erections are all about good blood flow, and lighting up calcifies blood vessels and stifles erectile circulation.
You guys can all stop lying and bragging. All men are hung like horses. Most mammals have a bone called the baculumor ospenis in the penis, but it is absent in humans and horses.The part of the penis that is visible is only about half of the whole organ. When it’s flaccid, it looks like a boomerang. The root of the penis is the portion of the penis that is inside the body. The root is attached to a bone at its base, and this serves to anchor the penis and allows it to stand away from the body during erection. So when a guy claims he’s got a big 8 or 10 inches, he may not be lying. He may also be the kind of guy who’s fond of saying, “It’s what’s in inside that counts.”
The part of the penis that is visible is only about half of the whole organ. When it’s flaccid, it looks like a boomerang. The root of the penis is the portion of the penis that is inside the body. The root is attached to a bone at its base, and this serves to anchor the penis and allows it to stand away from the body during erection. So when a guy claims he’s got a big 8 or 10 inches, he may not be lying. He may also be the kind of guy who’s fond of saying, “It’s what’s in inside that counts.”
The shaft of the penis contains neither bone nor any significant amount of muscle. The shaft is wider than it is high, and one side usually bulges out more than the other. The erect penis is very tough. It can be squeezed quite firmly without causing pain or damage.

Sex Tips to Arouse His Penis

The most common complaint men have about the way their female partner handles their penis is, “She’s too gentle.” Don’t be afraid to be aggressive. Major turn-on!
The glans, otherwise called the head of the penis, contains a large number of nerve endings. For a lot of men, the glans is hypersensitive right after orgasm. The frenulum, an elastic band of tissue under the glans that connects the foreskin to the penis and covers the glans a very sensitive area. So is the corona, the rounded border on the base of the glans. It’s usually believed that the head of the penis is the most sensitive part, but a long of guys say it’s the frenulum or the corona.
Vibrators aren’t just for women. They work on the penis, too. In fact, vibration is so effective on the penis that often men with spinal cord injuries can ejaculate with the aid of a special medical vibrator. For this kind of treatment, the vibrator is usually held against the underside of the head of the penis.
Other sensitive parts of the penis worth exploring and playing with include underside of the glans and underside of the shaft, which have the highest sensitivity rating for a significant majority of men, followed by the upper side of the glans,the left and right sides of the glans, the sides of the penis, the upper side of the shaft, and foreskin.
Guys, this is all the more reason why you shouldn’t rush to come when you masturbate. Rushing to come only conditions your body and mind to ejaculate quickly when you’re with your partner, robbing both of you for longer and more intense pleasure.
Women who are more likely to have vaginal orgasms say it is easier to orgasm with men who have longer penises. A longer penis may be better able to stimulate the vagina and the cervix. Don’t have a long dong? Enter a woman while kneeling over her. Life her butt on a pillow and with legs up in the air. A sex sling with stirrups makes it very easy and comfortable for a woman to stay in this position, even for a long time.

Penis Sex Facts

Every penis in the womb starts as a clitoris before hormones ‘sex’ the brain of the to-be male. The penis retains the mark of its female heritage with the dark underskin and the thin ridge or seam, known as the raphe, which runs from scrotum to anus, which is a fusion of the vaginal lips.
Men with foreskin usually have some sexual advantages over their cut counterparts. Foreskin is loaded with nerve endings and is sensitive to touch. The mucous membranes under the double layer of skin allow the penis to slip in and out of the vagina non-abrasively inside its own sheath, reducing the need to interrupt what’s going on to grab that bottle of lube on the nightstand. Foreskin also keeps the head of the penis softer and much more sensitive.
Circumcision is a routine operation in America, but virtually nonexistent (other than for religious reasons) in Europe. About 80% of American men are circumcised. Only about 30% of men worldwide are circumcised.
The scrotum is composed of skin and muscle, and is designed to pull the testicles closer to the body for warmth, and to hang away from the body for cooling. The scrotum also pulls the testicles towards the body during sexual excitement, and at climax they are held tightly against the body. One side of the scrotum, usually the left, hangs slightly lower to keep the testicles from knocking together when a man walks or runs.
Both sperm and male sex hormones are produced by the testicles (also called the testes). Sperm production requires a temperature slightly below normal body temperature, and new research suggests that temperature also effects hormone production. The testicles are very sensitive to pressure; even a slight bump can be painful. Some men like to have their testicles stimulated, others do not.
Once produced in the testicles, sperm move into the epididymis, a tightly coiled mass of thin tubes in the scrotum that carries sperm from the testes to the vas deferens to “ripen”. At this point the sperm are inactive, being moved by the body, not by swimming.
The vas deferens are thin tubes that transport sperm from the epididymis up into the body.The vas deferens end near the seminal vesicles produces part of the fluid ejaculated with the sperm.
The prostate produces part of the seminal fluid that begins the ejaculation process and keeps semen and urine from mixing. The prostate produces small amounts of fluid continually, but accelerates greatly during sexual arousal. Extra fluid produced during prolonged arousal can lead to a stronger climax.
Prostatitis, or what we normally refer to as blue balls, happens when the prostate gets congested. It is a real condition and it does hurt. It happens when a man gets repeatedly aroused but cannot ejaculate, or by a feast-or-famine sex life. Mild cases can be easily remedied by climaxing either through masturbation or penetrative sex. More serious cases require prescription medication and massaging of the prostate by a physician.
As a man ages, his prostate swells, often interfering with normal urination. Prostate cancer is very common in older men, although it is treatable if found early by routine screening.
Sphincters are small valves that control the flow of urine and semen in the prostate. The upper sphincter prevents semen from moving into the bladder during ejaculation. It also makes it more and more difficult for a man to urinate as he becomes increasingly erect. The lower sphincter helps pressurize the semen just before ejaculation.
The ejaculatory duct is an area of the urethra in the prostate between the sphincters. The sperm and various fluids mix in this area as ejaculation begins, the closed sphincters and muscle contractions create a pressurized system, which causes a man to climax and ejaculate.
The Cowper’s glands are two pea sized glands produce a slippery alkaline fluid, commonly called pre-cum, when the man is aroused. Pre-cum actually serves a purpose. This fluid prepares the urethra for ejaculation. During prolonged arousal, the fluid may form drops at the tip of the penis. Sperm are not present in this fluid.
Semen is actually a mixture of sperm cells (less than 1%) and fluids from the prostate (30%) and seminal vesicles (70%). A typical ejaculation is about a teaspoon of fluid, and can contain up to 600 million sperm.
Ejaculation normally happens along with orgasm, although it can be caused separately. Ejaculation happens in two distinct parts. The first, the emission phase, causes sperm and fluid to mix in the ejaculatory duct, while the sphincters close and muscles contract. During this time, a man feels what is called ejaculatory inevitability, or the point of no return. The second, or the expulsion phase, occurs when the lower sphincter opens, forcing the semen out of the penis. Contractions in the base of the penis help propel semen out of the body. Most of the fluid is ejected in the first few contractions, but the penis may continue to contract sporadically for 15 to 20 seconds, particularly after prolonged arousal.
The average male orgasm lasts six seconds. A woman’s typically lasts 23 seconds.
The amount of semen in an ejaculation is normally about a teaspoon full, but this varies from man to man. If a man has two ejaculations in a short period of time, the second will usually be very small.
Following ejaculation, the penis returns to its non-erect state. There is a rapid partial loss of erection, followed by a much slower loss of the remaining erection. The second stage lose seems to be slower after prolonged sex. Resolution, or the refractory period, is the period of time after ejaculation during which a man can’t have another erection.
The length of the resolution phase is usually related to age. It can be minutes for teens and possibly days for older men. It can be effected by sexual frequency, with less sexually active men having the longest refractory period as they age.
The most common cause of penile rupture is vigorous masturbation.
Penises can break. The most common way penises get injured is woman-on-top, or cowgirl position.
About one in 400 men is flexible enough to give himself a blow job. It’s a safe bet that the other 399 have given it their best shot.
The smells of licorice, pumpkin pie, lavender, donuts and chocolate are reputed to increase penile blood flow. (Note that beer and bacon didn’t make the cut.)
Asparagus, red meat and dairy are reported to produce the least pleasant-tasting jizz.
The largest penis ever to be medically verified was 13.5 inches long and 6.25 inches in circumference. Just to put that in perspective, the average vagina is three to four inches deep.
The Kinsey Report verified the longstanding rumor that black men have larger penises than white guys, but not by much. The average black male’s hard-on measures 6.3 inches, leaving the white man in a close second with a mean of 6.2 inches.
Some penises are more geographically desirable than others. Men in the Republic of Congo have the average largest erect penises of 7.1 inches. The U.S. ranks 18th in terms of average erect penis length at 5.1 inches. North and South Korea rank last at 3.8 inches,
A micropenis refers to penises that are shorter than 2.8 inches in length when stretched. The condition affects only six in 1,000 men. It’s caused by inadequate testosterone at a late stage of fetal development.

Previously published at: http://agoodwomansdirtymind.com/a-primer-on-the-plumbing-of-the-penis/

Prepping for Good Fellatio

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Kim Varner

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July 25, 2022

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Giving great fellatio can require skill, knowledge, and the desire to provide the most pleasurable experience for your partner. Prepping to provide that great head, is relatively easy.

Be Safe First

STIs (Sexually Transmitted Infections) can be contracted during oral sex so it is important to use condoms. Some people use them, some don’t. Flavored condoms can be fun and flavorful. Don’t use lambskin condoms for fellatio. Don’t brush your teeth before performing fellatio. Brushing makes hundreds of tiny little cuts in your mouth that will make you susceptible to STIs. Wait until afterward.

Improve Your Gag Reflex

Having an issue with gag reflex? Try practicing the water drip exercise to improve your gag reflex. Take a small (very small, a drop) sip of water into your mouth, put your head back and let the drop roll down your throat as long as you can without using your throat muscles to swallow. Once you’ve let it go down your throat as long as you can, swallow it. Deep throating can be an issue for some. Start off slow and work your way into it at every session. Using a throat numbing spray can help as well, it numbs the throat making it easier to take in the penis. There are also numbing mints that can make fellatio easier.

Positioning

Plan on positions. Lying on the bed with your head leaning off the foot of the bed and your partner leaning over you, will allow you to get the deepest entry with the most comfort. He can also lean over and provide a little cunnilingus while he’s there. Another good position is him standing in front of you and you sitting. This is a good position as well, but he will eventually want to sit or lie down if your session is extended. Most positions where the penis is going into the mouth in its natural curve is most comfortable.

Watch Your Mouth

Always cover your teeth with your tongue to ensure the most comfort during fellatio. You don’t want to bruise your partner or accidentally break the skin of his member. If you are an expert, you can use the comb method, gently going up and down the penis with your teeth gently combing the penis. There are little gummy mouth guards that also work well for covering the teeth.

Toys for the Boys

Use toys during fellatio sessions to give your mouth a break. Bullets are great for stimulation during fellatio. Use them on the scrotum, perineum, and shaft. Tongue vibrators are awesome to use during fellatio. The constant vibration from your every move with your tongue adds an additional level of excitement. Strokers are also useful during fellatio when you’re giving your mouth a break. Using a basic stroker is best. Just put it over the penis and use it to go up and down and side to side, massaging the penis. Make sure a good water-based lube (flavored if you like) is used to keep things slippery. Stay away from warming lubricants that may contain capsaicin which could burn uncomfortably on the penis and in your mouth and throat.

Have Fun!

Being skillful at giving fellatio is an attribute your partner will appreciate. Whatever you do, have fun with it. Make fellatio exciting and enticing. Discover what movements and positions your partner enjoys. Sensual intimacy is always increased when we enhance our sexual skills so have fun and start prepping!

Vacation Sex: What Makes it So Exciting? How to Plan for Sexy Fun

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Kim Varner

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July 21, 2022

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Vacation sex! There is just something about it that sends chills up the spine. Regardless of where you’re going with your partner, it’s the anticipation of the location itself; the beauty of the location, the food, the drinks, the music, the water, the touristy spots. It’s also the ability to have the freedom to do nothing. We know why we look forward to vacationing but what makes vacation sex so different than sex at home? And what can we do to make it the best experience?

Vacationing on its own is exciting. We look forward to seeing and exploring new spaces and places, this promotes a sense of adventure and anticipation. Now, add your sweet thing into the mix and the experience is going to turn into a sexy soiree’ with endless opportunities for sensual, hot experiences!

Vacationing with your partner will have you imagining all sorts of sexy situations. But why?

Looking forward to and being in a different location that’s new and exciting is arousing
The city itself, the architecture, the store fronts, bars, and shops may be naturally sensually appealing
You’re in a different bed that’s in a different room

When you’re on vacation you have very few or no responsibilities, no time constraints, no obligations. Your inhibitions will be lowered in this temporary state of euphoria, so the GOOD sex comes easier and more often. The atmosphere is prime for great sex. A beautifully appointed hotel room with a view of the city or a cruise ship cabin with a balcony overlooking the ocean, or a cabin in the woods with the lake right outside your front door, can bring out the passion and remove all barriers to pure, complete hedonism.

On vacation, we can do what we want without time constraints or obligations. You can have sex any time of day and as many times a day as you and your partner choose. You’re prone to be freer which will make you have sex on the furniture because it doesn’t belong to you. There are unlimited locations to have sex. Sex doesn’t have to happen in the confines of your suite, room, or cabin. Venture outdoors and find a spot in the woods to break into doggy style, a hidden corner on a city street or a secluded spot on the cruise ship after hours to try out a new standing position. If you’re taking a driving road trip, be sure to make time for a quickie in the car and a blow job. Doggy style works well in the back seat as does the cowgirl position.

Now is also a great time to try out new toys and new positions because of the freedom from time and inhibitions that vacation permits. Things to bring to ensure great vacation sex: water-based lubricant, favorite vibrators like a g-spotter, a p-spotter, a couple’s toy like a vibrating cock ring with a clit tickler, a favorite or new porn DVD or a laptop to download a link. Make sure you have your USB chargers and/or batteries with you and NOT loaded in your toys. Place the lubricant in a plastic bag to ensure there’s no leakage. Vacation sex is great for rekindling the spark in your relationship and your sex life. We see our partners in a different light, they’re in a relaxed, playful mode. The seriousness of day-to-day responsibilities is gone away.

Before leaving for vacation, sit and talk with your partner about sexual expectations while on vacation. Decide if you’ll have sex every day, all day, or whenever the mood hits you both. Will you try different things? Are we bringing toys and lubes? Will we try something new maybe anal or light bondage? Try not to place really high expectations for the sexual encounters. Enjoy every minute of the vacation and each other.

We all work hard, and we want to play hard too but sometimes actual rest and relaxation are in order so don’t place too much pressure on your partner to always be ready for sex. Vacation is about restoration and recuperation of our physical, emotional, and mental beings, we’re recharging so allow space and time for those as well. Enjoy!

6 Tips Boost Your Confidence This Summer

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Nikkita Grady

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July 13, 2022

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You’ve spent all winter (and spring) saying you were going to get back in the gym to ensure you could show off your body all summer… yet here we are… a few days into Summer, and the only workout you’ve done was 15 reps of lifting that spoonful of ice cream to your mouth.

It’s ok! Don’t be so hard on yourself. Life has changed drastically for all of us over the past couple of years.

We were thrown into a world of social isolation, remote working, and future uncertainty resulting from the unexpected pandemic caused by COVID. For the past two years, you’ve binged on snacks and unhealthy eating habits that pulled you further and further away from #bodygoals. You were adamant that you would get it together “soon” because you have so many cute outfits and swimsuits you haven’t been able to wear, and you HAVE to show them off this year. And with more people getting vaccinated daily, we knew the world would open up again by summertime. Now that time has come, you’ve got your vacation getaways all lined up, and you and your friends are ready to catch flights and not feelings all hot girl summer… BUT… now you’re feeling a little conscious about your body, and you’re trying to figure out how to lose weight and whip your body into shape like yesterday, right?

You aren’t alone.

Body confidence may be difficult to achieve, regardless of size. It’s so simple to compare ourselves to others while becoming progressively dissatisfied with the portions of our bodies we despise the most. Of course, this lowers our self-esteem even further and might influence our closest relationships while also ruining vacation mood.

Stop sweating yourself! You do NOT have to be a “Negative Nancy” or “Bitter Betty,” I’ve got you covered.

Here are 6 tips boost your confidence this summer:

1) Get to know, love, and appreciate your body. Avoiding the mirror and trying not to glance down in the shower will just make the situation worse down the line. Instead, spend some time looking in the mirror at your naked self. Really take a good, long look at your body. Take your time exploring and admiring every curve and crevice in the mirror.

Every day, mention something good about a part of your body. Begin by verbally emphasizing what you love and appreciate. When you get to the sections you don’t like, try to think of anything positive about them. If you can’t think of anything, you’ll need to figure out why you dislike that area so much and make a note of it so you can start acting to change your thoughts on those parts.

This will begin to alter the way your mind perceives your body. Remember that you are your own worst critic, and things aren’t always as bad as they appear to you.

2) Dress the part. You will gain confidence by putting effort into your appearance. When you’re happy, it shows in the way you carry yourself. Wear lingerie or clothing that makes you feel sexy. Not sure how to find something sexy you’re confident wearing? Trying to focus on pieces that flatter your figure or highlight the parts that you do love.

3) Get up and get moving. Health is wealth. What are you doing for your health? Exercising for as little as 30 minutes a day builds endurance, improves stamina, and — you guessed it, can improve your mood, energy, make you feel lighter. If you have gym anxiety, you can dance around the house, walk through your neighborhood, play outdoors with the kids, or indoors with your partner (wink). Overall, you will not only feel better, but you will also begin to feel more confident.

4) Celebrate more than your physical self. It’s difficult to remove yourself from judgment in a society when looking like an IG model and being shaped like a coke bottle appears to be the new standard, and photo likes on social media are how popularity is calculated.

This is why we should also focus on the non-physical aspects of ourselves. Are you artistic or crafty? Do you know how to yodel? Are you excellent with money? What about style? Maybe you’re incredibly hilarious. Whatever you are or can achieve, remember that you are more than a physical body, and your value extends far beyond a scale (or that skimpy 2-piece bikini you’ve been holding on to as motivation). Whether we realize it or not, these factors have a significant impact on our level of confidence.

5) Talk to your friends. It’s easy to believe that we’re the only ones who are unhappy with our bodies. However, you’d be amazed how many of your friends struggle with body image issues as well. You would also be surprised at where their insecurities lie, especially if it’s something you believed they were fully confident about.

Connecting with your friends on such intimate topics can strengthen your relationship with them, and just talking about these matters can help boost your confidence.

6) Stop comparing yourself to others. When we look at others, we often compare their best traits to our worst. We focus on their accomplishments while overlooking our own, leaving us feeling inferior. This is an unrealistic comparison that might exacerbate your anxieties and lack of self-confidence.

When you start comparing yourself to others, you take away your joy and confidence. Because of human nature, I realize this is easier said than done. Don’t be concerned with how others appear or what they own. Instead, concentrate on your self-worth and strive to improve yourself every day. Don’t hold yourself to the standards of others; rather, set your own. Be true to yourself. Accept yourself for who you are.

There is no such thing as a “perfect” summer body. In reality, the notion of a summer body was created as a way for advertising companies to sell weight-loss products, cosmetic surgeries, fashion and beauty items. Rise beyond the desire for self-criticism and accept yourself as the amazing person that you are.

Are You Autosexual?

By

Dr. Ava Cadell

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July 11, 2022

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I often tell my clients who want to learn about self-love and acceptance, that you need to treat yourself as if you are madly in love with you! That includes being kind to yourself, replacing negative self-criticism with positive affirmations and celebrating your accomplishments with rewards. Even taking yourself out on dates is a healthy expression of self-love.

However, some people have taken this a step further by discovering that they are sexually attracted to themselves and prefer Autosexuality rather than having sex with anyone else. There are speculations that it has become more common with the impact of COVID 19 pandemic and social distancing. There is a positive aspect of being Autosexual, such as feeling confident about your self-image and always being there for yourself.

If you are Autosexual, then masturbation in front of a mirror is your most favored form of sexual satisfaction with intense erotic arousal for the way your body looks and feels. Watching your fingers touch your body as you experience orgasmic pleasure that only you can provide is what makes Autosexuality so intensely erotic and addictive.

Your sexual fantasies are either memories of masturbating or you are the star performer and everyone else is watching you masturbate.

It is possible to be in a relationship where one person is Autosexual if the other person is supportive. In fact, encouraging your partner to masturbate with or without you can enrich your partnership and lead to more trust, respect, passion, friendship, and intimate communication, not to mention the best sexual relationship of your life!

The act of stimulating yourself sets off sparks in 80 different regions of the brain and releases feel-good endorphins that cause feelings of physical and mental wellbeing. When you fully harness this power by masturbating in different positions and places, you can encourage the growth of brain cells that can literally make you smarter.

For men, stimulating the prostate with a prostate milking toy and learning how to separate orgasm from ejaculation are powerful tools that strengthen the mind and make for incredible partnered sex that can be mind-blowing! There are step-by-step instructions on prostate play and how to separate orgasm from ejaculation in the Loveology University’s Self Pleasure course but essentially, it’s a practice which requires withholding ejaculation for measured intervals, which heightens pleasure and orgasmic intensity. I have many male clients who highly recommend the experience and report that it has improved their stamina and transformed them into better lovers.

Women have the pleasure of experimenting with different types of orgasm, which is a real brain turn-on. Of course, the clitoris and its 8,000 nerve endings usually steal the spotlight, but women should also have fun exploring their U, A and G spots manually or with sex toys to trigger new sensations and heighten their sexual awareness. A detailed description is available in the Masturbation course at https://www.loveuniv.com/store/FULtE655

Masturbation is also great for dealing with sexual anxiety and insecurities often caused by sexual guilt or shame. Taking the time to explore your own pleasure and knowing what turns you on is the key to overcoming these emotional blocks. When you remove the stress of performing for a partner, you invite your brain to consider all the erotic stimulants and your body can surrender to orgasmic bliss.

Masturbation is also an erotic safe sex couple’s activity and is the perfect way to see where and how you both like to be touched. I highly encourage mutual masturbation as it can create more eroticism and intimacy in a relationship that results in more satisfying sex.

Mindful masturbation allows your brain the freedom of expression it requires for regenerating itself and for you to live a fulfilling sexual life, whether you are single or in a relationship and any sexual orientation!

How to Have Great Sex As You Age

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Valeriam Vincent

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July 9, 2022

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Aging can take a toll on your mind and body, so it can also affect how you perform in bed. A study from the AARP found that sexual intimacy continues into your senior years. While people reaching that period in their life will begin to show signs of deterioration, that wouldn’t stop them from having great sex. If you have been with your partner for a long time and you are looking to spice things up, keep these tips in mind for keeping the romance alive.

Have intimate conversations

Romance isn’t just about physical sex. It’s also an emotional exchange in which both you and your partner understand each other’s need for intimacy. Don’t just talk about how your day went. Share your thoughts and your inner desires. Compliment or flirt with your partner and let them know that they are just as good-looking as the first time you met.

Aside from the good things, you can also talk about your problems and concerns. From there, you can find a way to work together in solving them. Doing so helps build intimacy and helps you discover a part of their personality you are not even aware of. You can take your daily conversations to another level. If you have plans to have sex, you can share your fantasies and arouse each other with dirty talk. This allows you to build excitement throughout the day and enhance the experience.

Get a regular check-up

When it comes to improving your performance in bed, you must visit your doctor regularly. As you age, your testosterone levels rapidly decrease resulting in difficulty to hold an erection and experience pleasure. Erectile dysfunction (ED) can also be the result of the blood pressure medication you are taking, such as loop-diuretics and beta-blockers.

For this reason, it’s important to visit your doctor regularly and ask if there is any treatment for inducing sexual arousal and helping you last longer in bed. Chances are, your doctor will prescribe ED medication such as Cialis. You might be asking yourself “What is it?” and “Will it lead to any side effects?” In that case, tell your doctor about what you are experiencing every time you lie down with your partner. Your doctor could recommend a safer option or they could find out what else is wrong. You will only know if you follow through with your appointments.

Improve your foreplay

Before having sex, you will need to arouse your partner in any way possible. The best way to do that is through light touching and kissing. However, seniors find it challenging to get aroused, so they may need more time for foreplay. This shouldn’t be limited to physical contact. Foreplay can also come in different forms, such as doing a relaxing hobby or taking a swim. Try to look for new ways to build arousal.

Use the right toys

At your age, you might be thinking that you’re too old to use sex toys for stimulation. However, these tools can help add variety and amplify the experience. Apart from dildos, vibrators, and ball gags, you can also use sex aids that support your body and prevent injury. Look towards an inflatable sofa bed and a pillow wage that is designed to keep your body in a more relaxed position.

No matter what sex toy you order from a store or online, purchase a proper lubricant. Your choice will depend on the material of the sex toy or condom you are using. If you’re picking silicone lubricant, don’t use it to coat silicone toys. Hybrid lubes are also great for sensitive vaginas or if there is a lack of wetness. Made of both water and silicone substances, these lubes can stay longer.

Be bold enough to try new things

Sex is all about exploration. It can get boring if you use the same positions and activities, so try going out of your comfort zone and opening yourself up to new ways of achieving a climax.

You can try BDSM and roleplaying while wearing costumes. You can also choose other areas around the house where you can have sex. You can also have surprise sex with your partner if you catch them in the middle of housework.

There are lots of ideas you can try out, so don’t let them settle in your head for too long. Share them with your partner or, better yet, surprise them with something that’s out of the ordinary.

If you think you have already experienced the best sex in your youth, your senior years will top that! Keep these tips in mind and overcome your love-making limits.

Why Camming Will Likely Remain Popular Post-Pandemic

By

Valeriam Vincent

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July 8, 2022

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One thing is sure—the Covid-19 pandemic drastically changed the world in innumerable ways. But how many of these changes will last?

During the pandemic, there was an intense surge in traffic to cam sites. With many people out of work, and camming very much a work-from-home job, it’s no surprise that more people than ever before turned to camming. Plus, you had the fact that people were spending more time than ever indoors.

But will camming remain popular post-pandemic? The answer is likely yes. Read on to find out why!

Camming and the Covid-19 Pandemic

Imagine you’ve just lost your job due to the Covid-19 pandemic and you’re not sure where to turn. Then your friend tells you about a camming site. This could be a way for you to make ends meet—maybe even more than that. Let’s say you’re already comfortable with your sexuality, and the prospect of being nude on camera is even kind of thrilling. Why wouldn’t you consider it?

Many people found themselves in tough economic circumstances due to the pandemic. Given that there was an increase in people looking for work-from-home jobs and a simultaneous boost to the demand for online content, it only makes sense that camming saw explosive growth during the pandemic.

When you factor in the loneliness of many people during the pandemic, the explosion in traffic to cam sites becomes even more understandable. And once people begin frequenting certain cam sites and certain cammers, they’re more likely to want to continue doing so, as it provides a more personal and interactive experience than conventional porn.

When it comes down to it, camming provides a sense of unique connection, one that appealed—and appeals—to many during stressful and uncertain times.

Why Camming Will Remain Popular Post-Pandemic

We know that all kinds of people turned to OnlyFans and camming sites during the pandemic, whether as performers or consumers. This trend is not likely to lose much steam as performers enjoy the flexibility of this work and consumers enjoy the more personalized touch.

Keep reading for five major reasons why camming will likely remain popular post-pandemic.

Work from Home is the New Normal

Think about how many people are still working from home, even if the pandemic has improved considerably.

Working from home is the new normal, and camming is a flexible job that can be done from anywhere with privacy and an internet connection.

As there are many benefits to working from home—such as saving on time and gas money and having more freedom to work from wherever you like—more people prefer to have this option. While many jobs can’t be done from anywhere in the world, camming is one of them.

Camming Is Part of the Gig Economy

The gig economy has taken off in the past five to ten years, and the pandemic greatly accelerated this trend. Camming is now part of the gig economy as it is a side hustle for many.

Even if it is a person’s main source of income, camming operates in the same was as many jobs in the gig economy. In other words, cammers use a platform and receive a commission, which isn’t so different from an Uber driver.

With more and more people looking into gig work and side hustles, camming is very much likely to continue to gain workers. It helps as well that, as mentioned, it’s a work-from-home job.

Livestreaming is More Popular than Ever

Livestreaming is now a common feature of all major social media platforms, including TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, etc. Twitch, known for its ties to the gaming world, has become one of the most popular platforms out there.

In other words, livestreaming has become huge, and the pandemic definitely did its part to boost this trend. Given that camming is also livestreamed content, it would make sense that it will continue to gain in popularity as part of this overall trend.

Once again, camming (and livestreaming in general) is work that is most often done from home and functions as part of the gig economy. Taken together, these trends are complementary and mean that we can project growing popularity for camming.

People Are Seeking Interaction

While there’s no doubt that traditional porn remains popular, several cam sites and social media platform OnlyFans have exploded in popularity. Given the shutdown during the pandemic and the economic opportunities available through these sites and platforms, it’s no surprise that they saw huge growth.

The personal aspect of camming is a trend that should only see continued growth as we move on into the post-pandemic world. People greatly enjoy the real-time aspect of livestreams and the fact that they can interact with the streamer or cammer.

There’s no doubt that people feel less lonely when engaging with a cammer or sending messages with someone on OnlyFans compared to consuming traditional porn. With the world going increasingly in the direction of customized, personal content, camming should continue to succeed as people look more and more to interactive content.

Camming and Sex Work Are Now More Accepted

Sex sells, especially in America. Nonetheless, America has long had a certain prudishness relative to nudity and sex as a topic of open discussion.

Younger generations are largely eschewing this tendency, however, with terms such as “sex positive” often being thrown around. This means that it’s becoming less of an issue for people who are interested in going camming. They may feel like they can count on support from their friends—and maybe even their families.

The fact that camming and sex work is now more accepted is helping drive the success of cam sites and OnlyFans and is likely to continue post-pandemic.

Wrapping Up

This article has covered why camming will likely remain popular post-pandemic. In short, this is due to five major reasons:

Work from home is the new normal
Camming is part of the gig economy
Livestreaming is more popular than ever
People are seeking interaction
Camming and sex work are now more accepted

The trends around camming have been helping it grow for years—the pandemic merely accelerated this growth. As such, camming and other online sex work are extremely likely to remain popular for the foreseeable future.

The Royal Riyu: Lorelei Riyu fights for choice

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Megan Hussey

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July 7, 2022

Lorelei Riyu is a model, mother and concerned woman–one who, like many other women, was deeply impacted by the United States Supreme Court’s recent decision to overturn Roe Vs. Wade.

With decades old protections of women’s reproductive health now endangered or gone altogether, Lorelei is joining the worldwide army of women who are fighting back; pledging to regularly donate a significant portion of her Chaturbate tip funds to groups that help women find safe and viable reproductive health services.

And, as with many acts of feminist rebellion, this one started with a spark of creative rage.

“I didn’t feel sad or scared or worried. I felt angry,” she said regarding her reaction to the Roe decision. “We seriously backtracked the progress of society. I have a son and a daughter who are just a few years from puberty and the “birds and the bees talk”. I can’t believe I’m going to have to tell them to be extra careful because unprotected and uneducated sex is so much more dangerous now. I’m going to be educating them on adoption and children in the system who want families. I hope I can teach them the importance of waiting with how expensive children and life, even without them is expensive and pressing.”

Riyu decided to take action.

“I’m so mad thinking about how many more back alley abortions there will be. How many suicides, how many rapes from those who just don’t care. Because that’s what this is too. People, not all, but people have a problem accepting the word “no”. For everyone telling women to just “wrap it or stop having sex”, it doesn’t work that way all the time, even if you convince yourself of that. That doesn’t stop the possibility of the worst happening, on both ends,” she said. “I don’t plan on stopping, ever. Being a camgirl is my full-time job, so I live off the tips I make, but I will never stop showing my support for this. I’m going to be taking tips two weeks out of every month and sending them off to camping sites to show support. Granted, I’m a small town lady, so my donations aren’t going to be immediately life changing, but I hope that no matter how much I make to be donated, that it helps to benefit a women’s life in the way that her government refuses to.”

Riyu is committed to her fight, on behalf of both her own children and women everywhere.

“As I stated, I have two children growing up into future adults and citizens of this country. I have to fight for their futures and their freedom, even if it’s from my home. I wish I could go to the protests out there and show support in person,” she said. “Several of my friends have had miscarriages. Several of my friends are so small that if they had children, it could potentially kill them. They shouldn’t have to endanger their own lives in order to fulfill whatever plan the government has brewing. I’m donating my tips to camping services in or around my area; not chosen any specific way, so if there’s a Facility that you would like to see get some donations, my messages are open. I don’t answer hate mail, so you can try, it won’t work.”

Riyu wants women in need to know that they are not alone.

“Don’t feel alone babes. The last thing you are is alone, look around you. I know things look so bad right now, but what we can do is get angry and fight for our freedom,” said Riyu. “Don’t let them take our voices but be safe about it. Don’t stop protesting. Let them hear you. Make them hear you. They’re supposed to work for us, not manipulate and control us. They’ve forgotten that and they need to be reminded.”

By visiting Chaturbate.com and visiting the channel watch “Thereal_Loreleiriyu” live on Chaturbate, you can take in a good show for a good cause.

“You can visit me on Chaturbate and help show support every weekday. I do two shows a day, can’t miss me if you tried. I have a good time no matter what. My room is built on good conversations, great music, and better vibes. I have viewers frequently tell me how much fun my room is,” said Riyu. “They love the throwback songs; they love the vibes I give off (and that’s because I’m goofy all around). I don’t judge one way or the other, but I don’t tolerate drama. My room has rules, they’re pinned to the top of my Twitter. Breaking those are about the way to get kicked, I don’t hesitate with disrespect to my room and my viewers, we’re all there for a good time, so let us have it.”

4 Reasons Your Sex Drive Changed After Having a Baby

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Nikkita Grady

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July 3, 2022

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So, you’ve just had a baby. Congratulations! But what about your relationship and sex life?

Many new mothers lose their libido after pregnancy. This is an incredibly common problem that can leave both partners feeling isolated and alone, and it can significantly impact your love life.

But there’s good news: intimacy and communication are essential to keeping your relationship healthy and strong. And if you’re willing to do the work, you can get your sex life back on track again.

I was in the same boat after my third pregnancy. My daughter changed my sex drive.

I know that sounds dramatic, but it’s true. She didn’t do it intentionally, but the fact remains that a spark went out for me after giving birth and stayed that way for over six months. Was it her fault?… kind of, but not exactly. But it was like someone suddenly pulled the plug on the emotional and physical connection I felt with my partner, all in one instance.

If you, too, experienced this, then know that you’re not alone. Losing your sex drive after pregnancy is common. Here are 7 reasons your baby may have changed your sex drive:

1) You have a new baby, life is crazy busy, and you’re worn out. Life with a new baby is a whirlwind of activity, and you’re finding yourself exhausted on top of it all. You don’t have time to do much of anything other than taking care of the baby, which means your energy (and libido) levels are low. You’re tired even when the baby is sleeping, when they’re playing in the bouncy chair, or crawling around the house. You can barely think about anything besides mommying, let alone imagine intimacy or being sexy again.

2) Your body has changed.

When you get pregnant, your body changes in a lot of ways. You’ll gain weight, and some will be in places where you don’t usually carry extra weight. You might notice that all these changes make you self-conscious about how others see you, especially if the way others see you is through the lens of their own desire for intimacy with another human being.

3) You’re exhausted, and you’re not getting enough sleep.

The importance of sleep is well-documented. Researchers at Harvard found that getting enough sleep can increase your brain power and make you more productive, while those who don’t get enough sleep are more likely to be depressed and have poor concentration. In short, a lot is riding on getting adequate shut-eye—and it’s worth noting that one study showed that for every night of lost sleep, your libido will drop by an average of 10%.

What does this mean for you? If you’re exhausted from caring for a newborn baby and aren’t getting any extra rest because the little one wakes up every hour (or two), then it’s likely that your sex drive has also taken a hit. Of course, there are other factors at play here—your mood may also suffer if you’re feeling overwhelmed or frustrated with all the changes in your life—but lack of sleep tends to be high on the list when it comes to libidinal adjustment after giving birth.

4) Your hormones are all over the place.

Hormones are one of the key factors that drive your libido. They can be affected by sleep, stress, and nutrition, and when you’re pregnant or breastfeeding, hormones change even more drastically. Menopause is another time when hormone levels fluctuate wildly, and medications like birth control pills can also affect them.

So if you’re having trouble getting in the mood with your partner, it might not be because of some deep-seated emotional issue—it could just be that your hormones are out of whack!

Let’s be honest: It’s common for new moms to struggle with their sex lives after childbirth. You’ve got a lot on your plate, physically and emotionally, and you’re probably feeling anxious about whether or not you’re doing a good job as a mother. Sometimes, this stress can leave little room in your brain for things like “sex” and “desire.” Even if you’re in the mood, so many things need to be done that it might seem like there’s no time left in the day—and getting intimate with your partner just doesn’t seem worth it.

You’re not alone. Millions of new moms are in the same boat as you. Be honest with yourself about what’s going on (and what’s not), and talk openly about it with your partner. If it turns out that your low libido is more than just temporary, ask for help from your doctor, therapist, or a sex coach who specializes in helping women find their way back to intimacy after childbirth.

The Fuk Machine Company

By

Valeriam Vincent

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June 30, 2022

Fuk Machine is the maker of powerful yet beautiful automatic sex machines, thrusting fucking machines, and double penetration pink sex machines. The machines have styles that are made for men and women, and they are each designed to spice up your sex life. Experimentation, imagination, and creativity are the words of the day when trying out one of these Fuk Machine models.

Some of the Best Selling models are:

The Automatic Pink Sex Machine With S Dildo
The Black Sex Machine With Five Dildos And Jump Egg
The Power Pink Sex Machine With Three Attachments
The Women’s Black Sex Machine With Three Dildos
The Double Penetration Sex Machines With Attachments
The Adjustable Speed Machine With Pink Five Dildos
The Thrusting Sex Machine For Men and Women
The Adjustable Sex Machine Black With Seven Dildos

The appealing Fuk Machine brand consist of emerging new designers and our discerning buyers have a keen eye for the best look anywhere so you can always find a style to call your own. Fashion is more than simply styles: it also represents our passions, which is why our designs are as unique and individual as you. Fuk Machine designs come in a variety of colors and some with an assortment of attachments aimed at increasing your sexual satisfaction.

Attachments are available for many models.

Forty-six exciting and unique attachments are available for the models. There is a male masturbation cup for the sex machine. A huge dildo is also available. Some styles are available with a flexible tube, an extend tube and a universal suction cup. The attachments are made of a variety of quality materials like silicone and TPE. The options are wide ranging and can add excitement and satisfaction to the Fuk Machine experience.

We are engaged in the wholesale of sexual machines. We are trying our best to build up a super strong sex machine mall with the best price and the best quality for customers from all over the world. Fuk Machine offers:

The most competitive price
Quality guaranteed based on the price
Spanning all ranges of products in the market
Golden customer service
The longest warranty times (For retailer and wholesaler, please check our website policy for your business
(For retailer and wholesaler, please check our wholesale policy for your business.)

Important Rules (applicable to certain models):

Upon first use, please do not insert the accessories too deep, do not try to catch the accessories.
Please disinfect the accessories with alcohol before use, lubricants are recommended.
When using the suction cup accessory, please wet it first and it is recommended to press the chassis with some heavy objects when in maximum speed.
To ensure the service life, please place the machine in a cool and dry place.

Whichever Fuk Machine models and attachments you select, a fun and pleasurable experience is coming your way. Fuck Machine will keep you and your customers coming back for more. Fuk Machine is an exciting brand that brings a unique line of quality products that work well for a wide variety customers.