Embrace Your Erotic Fantasies
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If you REALLY want to impress your lover… in a flirtatious way ask this simple question:
“Would you like to know my fantasies?” Who in their right mind is going to say NO?
We all know fantasies are essential to our daily lives and everyone has fantasies
whether they admit it or not. We fantasize about what we want to eat for dinner, where
we’re going to go on vacation, what kind of car we want to drive as well as what turn us on the most!
When couples role play together and act out each other’s fantasies, they gain a better
understanding of what the other wants, needs, desires and fears. Couples can improve
their communication, take their relationship to a higher level of intimacy and expand
their sexual horizons.
Role playing sexual fantasies is healthy, fun and natural for couples dating or for those
in a committed relationship of any orientation. Fantasies can rekindle passion, raise a
diminished libido, boost intimacy, are an exciting avenue of escape, heighten enjoyment
of sex, open you up to new activities and can turn sex into adult play.
Erotic Talk
Talking erotically can lead naturally to role playing. Fantasies are fun and will add a
dash of passion and zest to your lovemaking in the process.
Here are a few fantasies you and your lover may want to try out:
Master/Mistress and slave:
The “master” gives the “orders” and the “slave” does whatever the master orders (of course everything is talked about beforehand and is consensual). Keep in mind a creative master will have a much more accommodating slave; creating lots of enjoyment for the slave, makes for a well-loved master.
Call girl or boy:
The man is a john, the woman a call girl, showing up at the man’s hotel room for a trick. Or even more interesting, reverse the roles. The man is the high price gigolo, the woman a johnny. Play out your sexual fantasies.
Pin-Up Model:
How about taking sexy boudoir photos of your lover? It’s best to use a digital or instant camera for any explicit photos or they could end up on the bathroom wall at your local photo-processing lab. A great variation is the photographer/centerfold theme. If your lover has an artistic flair, then try reenacting the sketch scene in the movie, Titanic, preferably without the ship sinking.
Bodice Ripper:
Instead of throwing out old undies, let your lover tear them off you and adoringly ravage you as part of your lovemaking. If the material is too thick, cut them in strategic places so they tear off more easily.
Wrestle Mania:
Have you ever wanted to wrestle with your lover? A little gentle play-wrestling can heat up your lovemaking and get you into shape before a good night’s sleep. But, remember no dirty fighting below the belt.
Conclusion
Try out some fantasies with your lover to see which ones you like. Best case scenario, it is spice up your sex life and lead to greater intimacy!
