What are the best threesome apps?
There are a variety of threesome apps you can use to find the right person (or people) while staying safe and keeping your details private. Here are a few you may wish to consider.
Feeld
Branded as the “dating app for open-minded couples and singles,” Feeld could be your go-to place to find a threesome. You can either browse alone or as a couple, chat with people online, and then arrange a meet-up. Want to keep your sexcapade a secret? This app allows you to “hide” from your Facebook friends, which means you won’t match with them. It might just save you an awkward conversation or two.
FetLife
FetLife has been around for over a decade. It’s a widely popular social networking website (and now app) for kinky folks with specific fetishes. Whereas the other apps on this list are just that—apps—FetLife distinguishes itself by being a social networking platform (think Facebook, but for kinky fuckers). There are plenty of folks on FetLife who are down to be your third, just know, they’ll likely want to get into something kinky, too
3Somer
For those of you who are a little more experienced, you may want to give the 3Somer app a whirl. The platform is specifically for couples and swingers, which means that it may draw a more seasoned crowd. Meeting someone (i.e. a third) could be as easy as creating a profile with your partner, swiping through singles, and saying hello.
Fantasy
What could be more alluring than sharing your fantasies with like-minded adults? That’s what this next app is all about. Fantasy allows both couples and singles to connect over the things that turn them on! Plus, you can go incognito and sign up for a “guest” profile, which means that this one doesn’t sync with any of your social accounts.
Meet the other threesome participants before you have sex.
You may be looking for no more than a one-night stand, but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t get to know them first. Arrange to meet them in a casual setting before the big event so you can see if you’re all attracted to each other.
“Sometimes with threesomes, people like to make a whole evening of it. “You have it as an actual date; going out for wine and dinner to get the connection going before you get intimate. I would recommend that you meet up before to check that you’re both comfortable with that person.”
Decide on boundaries for the threesome. What’s too far? Talk it out so there are no surprises. Is penetration ok? anal? With more people between the sheets come more complications. If you’re in a couple, it’s no longer merely about making sure the two of you are happy and satisfied; you need to think about the third. If you’re the third, it’s important to advocate for yourself and make sure you’re getting as much out of the arrangement as everyone else. That’s why you’ve got to talk about what you’re all happy with before the action kicks off. Think of it as foreplay talk.
If you’re hosting the threesome, take some time to make your home look inviting. You’re supposed to be wooing the third, so you need to make an effort. You might want to put on music, light some candles or at the very least, change your sheets. When things kick off, keep in mind what the third is looking for from the experience. At the end of the night, they deserve to be just as satisfied as the two of you. Be generous with them—sharing is caring, after all.
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