Your Femdom Guide to HypnoKink and Erotic Hypnosis

Using Erotic Hypnosis and HypnoKink as a BDSM Tool for Femdom Mistresses

In this article you will learn what erotic hypnosis and hypnokink are and how you can use them with your slaves/submissives/subjects or in your professional practice as a tool in your BDSM tool box.

I am Mistress Carol.  I am a hypnosis professional and I’ve been creating erotic hypnosis sessions for more than ten years.  I am also a clinical hypnotherapist. More than 4,000 clients have enjoyed my erotic hypnosis recordings and my work is termed by many as the best on the Internet, via my site that features erotic hypnosis for men.

What is Erotic Hypnosis?

Erotic hypnosis is hypnosis with an added sexual component.  Erotic hypnosis is an excellent addition to BDSM scenes because it is a true mental power exchange, one in which the subject opens the private areas of the mind that are normally kept hidden from others.  It can be used prior to physical play to enhance submissive feelings or feelings of helplessness and surrender.  It can be used to create mental fantasy that engages their mind in a greater kinky capacity.  It can be used to put your sub at ease or to train them to submit better to your desires.  It can create greater sensitivity to stimuli.  The list is long and large and with a willing sub hypnosis can enhance BDSM play in many different ways.

How can I use hypnosis during BDSM play?

You have a session scheduled.  You are already on his mind and in his mind.  He’s been thinking about you nonstop with the anticipation building.  He walks in.  You blindfold and bind him.  He has no choice but to listen to everything you tell him.  His senses have been diminished by the blindfold.  His arousal is skyrocketing by his helplessness.  You are taking him into trance, filling him with suggestions about who he is becoming for you now, your helpless slave, your pretty sissy, your subject on his knees worshipping the ground you walk on.  The use of hypnosis in BDSM play is as vast as your imagination.

But, how do you get to this point?

Where to start

A lot of what I tell you today may seem a little simplistic but hypnosis really isn’t complicated.  Hypnosis is a combination of relaxation, decreased awareness of surroundings, focused awareness on the hypnotist and increased suggestibility.  All of this is brought about by the use of language and association.

The anatomy of a trance typically consists of four parts, the induction, the deepener, the body and the wakener.  Following is a brief introduction of them.

What is an induction?

The hypnotic induction is where you lead your subject into a hypnotic trance state, guiding your subject away from consciousness and into the realm of their subconscious mind.  There are many different methods to do this depending on the structure of the trance you want to create for your subject.  A few widely used inductions are progressive relaxation, conversational, confusion, eye fatigue, the Dave Elman induction, count down, etc.  The Internet is full of information for those wanting to learn more about hypnosis and hypnotic techniques and for choosing those that techniques that resonate with you and you enjoy using.  Plus, the purchase of a few good books on hypnosis will help your education immensely.

What is a deepener?

Once you have induced trance, you may want to drop your subject even more deeply into it.  Your subject continues to simply fall deeper into hypnosis as you guide him down even further.  Association works very well in developing your deepeners.  I like to use the “dungeon” scenario and as my subject is “walking down the long ominous dimly lit hallway to my dungeon door, each step is pulling him deeper and deeper”.  Be creative.  Have fun with it.

Every subject enters into hypnosis differently but a few telltale signs of a good depth of trance are slack facial muscles, eye twitching, body twitching, and slow steady breathing.

What is the body in hypnosis?

The body of a hypnotic trance is the portion of trance where something is accomplished.  What is it you want to suggest to your subject inside of hypnosis for you?  Do you want to plant a “trigger” a subconscious reaction he responds to such as “every time I snap my fingers you bark like a dog” or “you will wake with an overwhelming desire to kiss my feet”?  Keep in mind that the responses you receive must resonate within your subject’s moral boundaries.  You cannot make anyone do anything in hypnosis they would not do out of hypnosis.  And the success of your suggestions depends on the suggestibility level of your subject.  I’ll get into that a little more below.

What is a wakener?

A wakener is just that.  It’s a method of bringing your subject out of trance.  “When I count to three you will wake, coming all the way out of hypnosis”.  Boom.  Done.  Not quite yet.
Something to keep in mind when you bring someone out of a hypnotic state is the subconscious mind is still open.  A state of suggestibility still exists for a short time afterward.  You can use this time to reinforce the suggestions you used in trance or to emphasize the relaxation they are feeling.   “You are deeply relaxed, peaceful and calm with an intense desire to worship and kiss my boots.”

Does everyone become suggestible in hypnosis?

You are a Mistress.  Your dominance has already been established and acknowledged in your subject, whether the relationship is personal or professional.  You are in charge.  What you say goes.  Or does it?  The subconscious mind is a little trickier than that.

I believe everyone can be hypnotized and is suggestible, but to what degree is the key.  No two people experience hypnosis alike and hypnosis is a very intimate activity.  The subject is letting the hypnotist into delicate territory… the mind.  Trust and rapport are very important.  Although it may be fun to suggest the removal of all control while hypnotized, in reality the subject has complete control over the suggestions he/she will accept and those that are not acceptable.

Know the boundaries and stay within them.  An unacceptable suggestion can bring your subject immediately out of the trance you’ve worked so hard to induce.

What is HypnoKink?

HypnoKink is whatever consenting adults want it to be while using hypnosis.  The surrender of one’s mind in hypnosis is an extremely arousing experience for both subject and hypnotist alike and the power exchange can be intoxicating.  You are taking your subject from a waking conscious limited state of mind and removing their boundaries, limits, inhibitions, opening up a world internally that can be explored more fully.

You may have a client or a play partner who loves being taken away and hypnotized deeply and helplessly.  That IS their kink.  Or you can use hypnosis to take your subject into a fantasy, or use their suggestibility to further their already kinky pursuits, such as increasing their sensitivity to impact play or CBT.  Think about how hypnosis could enhance your client’s kidnapping fantasy by using it as a form of mind control while interrogating them.

You already have the tools.

You are a Mistress.  You are already filled with a high level of confidence in dominating others.  Most likely you are a natural psychologist and already know a lot about the mind and human behavior.  Hypnosis is not complicated to learn.  It just takes some time and practice.  Your subject is already there, tied, tethered to your every word.  His mind is aroused, wanting nothing more than to please you.   Give him a good hard hypnotic mind fuck before you tease and torment his body.  It’s empowering and a lot of fun.

I hope this article has been helpful to you and has increased your interest in hypnosis.  If you have any questions I can be reached at Info@EroticHypnosis.

I create erotic hypnosis recordings that your sub can purchase online and I create custom sessions which are purchased by subs on behalf of their Mistress to further their Mistress’s control over them through hypnotic distance training.  Please get in touch with me if bespoke hypnosis is intriguing to you.

Happy hypnotizing!

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Mistress Carol is available for expert quotes in articles, books, e-books, as well as interview requests on podcasts, in web publications, magazine articles, videos and more. Mistress Carol’s areas of expertise include: Erotic Hypnosis, Femdom Hypnosis, Sexual Arousal Hypnosis, Erotic Mind Control, Deep Hypnotic Trance, Hypnotic Erotica, Hypnotic Orgasm, and Hypno Fetish. Visit her site for more erotic hypnosis for men at EroticHypnosisforMen.com!

If you would like to contact her for an interview or quote, please email her at [email protected]